Doodling May Boost Memory

In a Boring Meeting? Doodling as You Listen May Help You Remember Important Info
By Miranda Hitti
WebMD Health News
Reviewed by Louise Chang, MD

Feb. 27, 2009 -- The next time you're stuck on hold or zoning out during a dull meeting, you might want to reach for a pen and doodle -- and not just to ease your boredom.

Doodling might help you remember snippets of key information that's mentioned in those conversations, a new study shows.

The study comes from Jackie Andrade, PhD, of the School of Psychology at England's University of Plymouth.

Andrade asked 40 adults who had just finished another psychology test to listen to a "rather dull" audio tape play for two and a half minutes and to jot down the names of people who would definitely or probably be coming to a party, according to the tape.

As they listened to the tape, half of the participants were encouraged to doodle on a piece of paper. They didn't have to draw freehand; instead, they were given a sheet of paper filled with outlines of squares and circles to shade in. For comparison, the other half of the group didn't doodle while listening to the tape.

A minute after the tape finished, participants took a pop quiz in which they had to recall the party-goers' names and places that were mentioned on the tape. They had not been told to listen for the places.

The doodlers recalled an average of "7.5 pieces of information (names and places), 29% more than the [average] of 5.8 recalled by the control group," Andrade writes.

Why was doodling helpful? Maybe it kept participants more alert while they listened to the boring recording, Andrade suggests.

"This study suggests that in everyday life doodling may be something we do because it helps to keep us on track with a boring task, rather than being an unnecessary distraction that we should try to resist doing," Andrade says in a news release.

The study appears online in Applied Cognitive Psychology.

20th Annual Beale St Zydeco Festival

20th Annual Beale St Zydeco Festival

Feb 28, 2009

Memphis, TN

Vote for Bobby Chaumont

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Jump!!!

Back in the 1929 Financial Crash it was said that some Wall Street Stockbrokers and Bankers JUMPED from their office windows and committed suicide when confronted with the news of their firms and clients financial ruin . . .

Many people were said to almost feel a little sorry for them . . . . . .



In 2008/2009 the attitude has changed somewhat!

Oldies but Goodies

1. How Do You Catch a Unique Rabbit?
Unique Up On It.

2. How Do You Catch a Tame Rabbit?
Tame Way.

3. How Do Crazy People Go Through The Forest ?
They Take The Psycho Path

4. How Do You Get Holy Water?
You Boil The Hell Out Of It

5. What Do Fish Say When They Hit a Concrete Wall?
Dam!

6. What Do Eskimos Get From Sitting On The Ice too Long?
Polaroid's

7. What Do You Call a Boomerang That Doesn't work?
A Stick

8. What Do You Call Cheese That Isn't Yours?
Nacho Cheese

9. What Do You Call Santa's Helpers?
Subordinate Clauses..

10. What Do You Call Four Bullfighters In Quicksand?
Quattro Sinko.

11. What Do You Get From a Pampered Cow?
Spoiled Milk.

12. What Do You Get When You Cross a Snowman With a Vampire?
Frostbite.

13. What Lie s At The Bottom Of The Ocean And Twitches?
A Nervous Wreck.

14. What's The Difference Between Roast Beef And Pea Soup?
Anyone Can Roast Beef.

15. Where Do You Find a Dog With No Legs?
Right Where You Left Him.

16. Why Do Gorillas Have Big Nostrils?
Because They Have Big Fingers ..

17. Why Don't Blind People Like To Sky Dive?
Because It Scares The Dog.

18. What Kind Of Coffee Was Served On The Titanic?
Sanka.

19. What Is The Difference Between a Harley And a Hoover ?!
The Location Of The Dirt Bag.

20. Why Did Pilgrims' Pants Always Fall Down?
Because They Wore Their Belt Buckle On Their Hat.

21. What's The Difference Between a Bad Golfer And a Bad Skydiver?
A Bad Golfer Goes, Whack , Dang!
A Bad Skydiver Goes Dang! Whack ..

22. How Are a Texas Tornado And a Tennessee Divorce The Same?
Somebody's Gonna Lose A Trailer

New Stock Market Terms

Got this from my Dad today:

New Stock Market Terms

CEO – Chief Embezzlement Officer
CFO - Corporate Fraud Officer
BULL MARKET – A random market movement causing an investor to mistake himself for a financial genius
BEAR MARKET – a 6 to 18 month period when the kids get no allowance, the wife gets no jewelry, and the husband gets no sex.
VALUE INVESTING – The art of buying low and selling lower.
P/E RATIO – The percentage of investors wetting their pants as the market keeps crashing.
BROKER – What my financial planner has made me.
STANDARD & POOR – Your life in a nutshell.
STOCK ANALYST – Idiot who just downgraded your stock.
STOCK SPLIT – When your ex-wife and her lawyer split your assets equally between themselves.
MARKET CORRECTION – The day after you buy stocks.
CASH FLOW – The movement your money makes as it disappears down the toilet.
YAHOO – What you yell after selling it to some poor sucker for $240 per share.
WINDOWS – What you jump out of when you're the sucker who bought Yahoo at $240 per share.
INSTITUTIONAL INVESTOR – Past year investor who's now locked up in a nuthouse.
PROFIT – an archaic word no longer in use.



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If you had purchased $1000 of shares in Delta Airlines one year ago,
you will have $49.00 today.

If you had purchased $1000 of shares in AIG
one year ago, you will have $33.00 today.

If you had purchased $1000 of shares in Lehman Brothers
one year ago, you will have $0.00 today.

But---- if you had purchased $1000 worth of beer

one year ago, drank all the beer,
then turned in the aluminum cans for recycling refund,

you will have received $214.00.

Based on the above, the best current investment planis to drink heavily & recycle.
It's called the 401-Keg.

Getting back to my Aspie roots! You (and your loved ones) Might be an Aspie If....

I was inspired to revisit some of the you-might-be-an-aspie-if sites by a conversation I had tonight. I am STILL amazed at how many of these I can apply to myself. haha!

Some of my favorites:

You might be an Aspie if:

You quit smoking, not because you're worried about lung cancer, but because you're tired of setting your hair on fire....

You can remember the exact date The Flintstones premiered (Oct. 1, 1960) and the name and production number of the first episode (P-1, "The Swimming Pool") but completely forgot about the now-congealed tuna casserole that's been sitting in your microwave for three days...

You get really ticked because you realize the first episode of "The Flintstones" to air on Oct. 1, 1960 was episode P-2, "The Flintstone Flyer" (it aired out of production order) but didn't catch the mistake until you sent off the e-mail, and now you're going to look like an idiot...

You can sing the Esperanto anthem--in Esperanto
("En la mondon venas nova sento,
Tra la mondon iras forta voco...")
but your own country's national anthem throws you...("Where was that part about the 'ramparts' again?")
You actually spent hours on the internet trying to find a MIDI of the Esperanto anthem...'cause obscure anthems are your "thing" this month...

You actually know what Esperanto *is.*

You wonder why in the world someone would design a flag and write an anthem for a nonexistant nation--as you're headed to Klingon language camp...

If it takes you 5 minutes to explain where the mayonnaise is in the refrigerator....

when someone says, "Now take a minute and picture -in your head- something or other", you wonder why it would be necessary to suggest it, because you always have pictures in your head....(OMG YES!)

- you never worry about an umbrella and point out to people that they aren`t going to fizz like alka-seltzer if they get wet.

- your hands are always covered in burns, cuts and scars, and the only ones you noticed getting are the really spectacular ones, but they never hurt anyway.

- people keep saying if they were you, they wouldn`t be telling anybody about the idiotic ways you got those burns, cuts and scars.

- at any one time you can count 200 scars on both hands.

*note* The scar thing is WAY too close to home!

if you are the only one behaving rationally in a real emergencey and everyone else is angry at you for trying to get them to get to safety...

The last time you moved house, you had 25 large boxes of books to every one smallish box of clothing.

It took you, your parents, a friend, and 4 movers 3 days to move all your stuff, and you were only moving out of a 2 bedroom apartment! (what can I say. Clutter is my life.)

You question whether you are really a Homo Sapiens Sapiens.. and not a seperate sub-spiecies like H. Sap. Sap. Varient Aspie.

You have ever seriously wondered if some ancestor of yours was in fact a space alien who 'jumped the fence'.

You've ever joked that in your last life, you lived on Alpha Centauri.

You refer to what is supposedly your own species as "Humans".. or worse, "Homo Sapiens Sapiens". Extra points for times you shake your head and mutter "Humans...." when you see some example of social behavior that you find unattractive, like bullying or extreme faddishness, or being boistrously over-social. Extra points if those times happen more than one time a day.


You hate having to talk on the phone and confine your conversational depth to 'Yup', 'Nope', and 'Bye'. 10 additional points if you answer the phone with either 'Me'. or 'What do you want?'

You go outside and are instantly mobbed by animals, because animals always love you. They sense something different about you and that makes them feel safe and happy.

You take apart computers or other electronics for fun. 10 additional points if you started doing this before you were five years old. (Remember the see'n'say picture viewers? Mine was dissassembled in about 2 minutes, I was 5!)

You own more than 3 different types of earplugs or sunglasses. (Haha!! I have over 20 pairs of sunglasses and at LEAST 6 types of earplugs!)


You play 'Name That Bruise!' in the bath, because you have no idea where you got them. (Haha or you actually take photographs of your inumerable bruises, make collages and send them to friends!)

You gave up on ever convincing people that you are not odd ages ago. You now just live your life and to hell with anyone who thinks it strange. (ayup!)


You introduce yourself to people you've already met over and over again because you are face-blind. (YES!)

You would rather have your liver pecked out by a giant crow than spend a day at the mall. (Hahahahaaha sooo true!)

If your classic book report assignment is rejected because the school board doesn't accept the works of Stan Lee (It is TOO classic!!!)

You reinforce the foundations and floors of your house to allow for the sheer tonnage of books you own and insist on keeping around for frequent re-readings, even though you remember everything in them.

You own more books than anyone in your city.

You spend over 30% of your income on either books or collectables related to an interest. 10 additional points if you're supporting more than one interest in this manner. (Doesn't EVeryone??!!!?)

you fiddle around with your computer, sell it, reinstall Windows, crash it, try different combinations of the above and occasionally give up on computers for life (for a couple of days) so often that you have to rebuild your meagre list of about 6 favourites once every couple of weeks. (hahahahaaha oh by the way don't trip over the computer parts and pieces in the middle of the BATHroom!~ Seriously, I have pictures....)

...you want to sky-dive or bungee jump, but you wouldn't do it if you had to drive through traffic to get there.

...if when you were a kid, and other kids wanted to play ball, you wanted to turn toy cars over and spin their wheels.

...on the one hand you think you are the most interesting person you know, but not too many other people are trying to get to know you.

...you have learned to say "why" in several different languages. (warum? pse? zasto? proc? hvorfor? waarom? bakit? pourquoi? mengapa? perché? por que? почему?)

...your boss says, "Do such and such", and you can't do it until you know "why", because you are not going to waste your time on doing something that doesn't make sense. (absodamnlutely!)

...if you refused to let your grown son get rid of his legos, because you wanted to have the option of playing with them yourself again. (legos, action figures, books, puzzles, trading cards....:)

...you get extremely disappointed in yourself if you don't know something when you need to know it because you really "SHOULD" know that. (All the damn time!)


you have to ransack your entire residence a couple of times a week trying to find something you often need, and even though you usually don't find what you're looking for you find half a dozen useful other things you thought you'd lost, often even something you actively need that day. (a couple times a day!)

...you get all cleaned up and dressed for a party and just before you walk out the door you remember you hate parties so you switch on the computer, put on a t-shirt and get settled in for the night. (haha! yep)

You like defraging your hard drive so you can watch little blue squares lining up for a couple of hours. (it's great fun!)

you go to the paper shop to buy a newspaper but you can't decide whether to get the Herald or the Telegraph, then you remember news is all lies and nonsense (not to mention a waste of trees!) so you go home again without a paper. (I did this exact thing last week!)

when someone recommends that you ask Jesus into you heart, you form a mental picture of him changing the wallpaper in your left atrium. (Usually I picture more of a soft-shoe shuffle through the entranceway...)

you firmly believe that amyotropic laterosclerosis should be named for Stephen Hawking instead of Lou Gehrig. (Firmly!)

you need a sedative when you go to an ice-cream parlour with more than two flavors. (I'm not quite that bad... but mainly that's because I don't like ice cream! :)

If you would rather eat broken glass than go to a sorority party (pretty much)

your significant other sleeps on the sofa because there's JUST too little room for the two of you and your stuffed animals (10 points more if said animals are ordered alphabetically by scientific name).(Hahaha um there are pictures of just such an occurance that 'may' have taken place in a habitation of mine...)

you've ever created your own Plexiglass lunchbox to help you remember at a glance whether you're going to the office or coming home. (I didn't do this, didn't even think of it, but damn that's a GOOD idea!)

you've ever told somebody, "I'M NOT IMMATURE--I'M NOT, I'M NOT, I'M NOT, I'M NOT, I'M NOT!!!!"

"Do you want fries with that" aggravates your PTSD. (hahaha omg /cringe.)

you find it easier to remember something reasonable like "acetylsalicylic acid" than some arcane, fancy-shmantz word like "aspirin". (I'd like to thank my dear old dad for passing along this trait! Cameron will have fond memories of his mom and grumpa discussing why the sodium laurel sulfate solution might have an adverse effect on the dermatological layer of his canine companion and that extreme care and vigilance should be used in it's application with some thought given to perhaps substituting a more canine compatible cleansing formulation.)

the word "Hallmark" makes you think "When you care enough to send the very best", and you can remember tons of those kinds of "ad" lines and you use them in everyday speech. (AND at the same time you are visualizing the 'pun' that is a Hallmark card with an actual Hallmark on it! hahahahah)

you are going to college and petrified by the question "what is your major" because you don't know if it should be, English, Russian, Art, Art History, Psychology or whatever your next interest will be, OR if you should pursue your own personalized major program in Eremitic Studies or Anti-Social Science. (absolutely terrified!)

.if the thought, "there has to be a pattern to this" is a major theme of your life. (MAJOR!!!)

you actually KNOW that an Aspergerian is not a vegetable you cover in Hollandaise sauce.

you can't stand kids but you spend inordinate amounts of time browsing through "Toys 'R' Us". (I actually like kids -mostly- but yeah an INORDINATE amount of time at "Toys 'R' Us")

you think that only a sadistic inhuman fiend from the deepest recesses of hell could have written/inspired pieces like "The Chipmonk Song". (Christmas, Christmas time is here--AAAAARRRGGGGHH!!) (EVERY year it's the same! I've made numerous posts about this topic in the past but seriously WTF?!!!)

you have dreams of communicating with extraterrestrials and nightmares about chatting with the next-door neighbour. (Haha!!!!! full on night-terrors!)

You have a stuffed animal collection and have to take one with you when you travel to keep you company. (well I gave up traveling with my teddy bear at a much younger age... 32!;)

You manage to make out a list of shopping items to buy, and you hate making lists. You feel all proud of yourself for your accomplishment until you realize once you're at the store that you left it on the kitchen counter. (I don't really hate making lists, it's just one of those things that takes a little extra effort and yeah I do this EVERY trip to the damn grocery store. I DO hate grocery stores...)

Someone asks you how you are and you give an honest answer about what a rotten day you had and go on for 5 minutes about it. Then they get insulted or bored and you get confused 'cause after all, they DID ask. (HAHA I dedicate this one to Susan, we have commiserated over and boglged about this on a few occasions!)

you follow rules to the letter - but only if they make sense to you. (Guilty as charged! Afterall an illogical rule cannot by definition actually apply to anything!)

you consider the pleasantries of others just a waste of time. (Pleasantries of others are one of my BIGGEST pet peeves... IS THERE A POINT TO YOUR MEANDERING RAMBLING REPETITIONS???!!!!! PUH_LEEEEZE ARRIVE AT IT IMMEDIATELY IF NOT SOONER!)

you understand a certain figure of speech because it was explained to you, but you still wonder what idiot could come up with something like that.(one of my hobbies, trying to figure out where a figure of speech came about and what sort of idiot came up with it in the first place)

you go to buy butter and come back with 12 different items, none of which is butter.(Yet another reason to avoid the grocery store at all costs!)

you talk your body into functioning when it refuses to be healthy enough to do certain things - and it often works. (This IS how I get through most days)

you collect stuffed felines and have more than 300 and know the names of all of them (and their personalities) but you still mix up your relatives. (*blush* I don't have 300...)

someone did some work for you trying to help you and thus ruined your whole day and the last few months of work because you absolutely NEEDED to finish it yourself.(Recently I asked a friend to tell me that they would do some work for me, because I knew as soon as I heard those words I would be totally motiveated to DO IT MYSELF and get it done as soon as possible to avoid ANY chance of anyone else actually doing it)

if you spend hours trying to figure out how someone could find a meaning in your words that was not there. (Hours, Days, WEEKS!!! It is one of the banes of my existence. AND there MUST be a solution IF I could only find the freaking reason it happens ALL the freaking time! hehe yeah just a little bitter about this one...)

your aunt had an accident while she was out with the dog, and you ask if the dog is alright. (I dedicate this one to my son, Liam!)


someone wants to get past you and says "excuse me" and you reply "sure" without moving a bit. (I dedicate this one to my brother, and BOTH of my sons! LOL)

you forget to eat or drink for a few days because you are working on an interesting project.

you insist on your view on fairness even when anyone else thinks you have gone mad. (and this one is dedicated to my son, Cameron. Poor baby just cannot get over the fact that life isn't fair, even though it really, really should be!)

you pass by a playground and see a nonverbal child you know playing with sand and water. You join in and have absolutely no problems with spending hours there, not speaking a word, and the two of you not even looking at each other.

...instead you have a very vocal and animated talk with the tomcat from downstairs - all in cat-language, of course. (haha VERY vivid flashbacks of doing this almost exactly)

the girl you've been trying to impress finally catches on and gets a new hairdo with the idea of impressing you back, and you walk right by her without recognizing, and she grabs you and provokes you to ask, "WHO are YOU? (This one goes out to you, Rob!)

you not only line things up, you always line them up in a symmetrical arrangement. (well if you are going to line them up, they may as well by symmetrical!)

you can't give up reading the newspaper, even though you'll never get through to to all the articles you want to read, and as a result, you're now out of living space because you can't bear to part with the back issues for fear of losing one deep in the pile where you know there's an important story you never gor around to reading (ten extra points if you know which pile said important story is in, and approximately how deep in that paper is).(I don't do this with newspapers, but holy hell you should see the files I've saved on my computer for further reading at some future point in time)

You know your aspie when you can smell the storm before it starts to rain, But you go and check the weather channel anyway just to be sure hehehe.(I DO THIS!)

only hours after a biology final you spend $6 on a magazine devoted to brain science, especially because it has an article on savants (including Kim Peek and autistic artist Richard Wawro) and you look forward to the deep relaxation you will feel while propped up in bed reading it. (I seriously had to read this one 3 times to see why this one might be considered Aspie, because, it seemed like a perfectly reasonable, acceptable, fun thing to do to me!)

you feel somehow privileged to have insights into the subject of cultural anthropology because you have been studying anthropo's your whole life trying to figure out what makes their culture tick.
(it's Temple Grandin who compared herself an "anthropologist on Mars") (YES, YES, YES!!!)

...you are extremely grateful for online tax preparation because: a)no one has to try to decipher your handwriting,
b)you don't have to see or talk to anyone to file your taxes, not even the people at the post office. (You have NO idea!- it's also one of the greatest things about online shopping- If I am out and the kids want pizza, I will DRIVE HOME to order it online and then have it delivered to my house)

your teacher commands every one in the room to pair-off to discuss a topic and you are extremely relieved that no one wants to be your partner. (Dreaded this! Almost as much as "Ok class, now we are going to share about ourselves...")

...you always liked the phrase "deja vu" and have experienced it, of course, but you were really happy when you learned about, "jamais vu", because it's always nice to know that the psychologists have picked pretty sounding French words to describe your problems.

After thinking about "jamais vu", you think about, "rien vu", and wonder if you just invented a new phrase.....

Je jamais vu rien, je deja vu rien jamais.

And you think that "jamais vu" might be what happens when you see your neighbor outside in his or her pajamas. And then you think, "wow, I sure am funny." I am. Funny. :-) (hahahaha all the time!)

you don't think an aspie board would be very authentic without some argumentative pontificating, I defend argumentative pontificating because I myself am prone to such. Although, I am only trying to be factual and helpful. (and this one goes out to Cory! :)


...if you cook home cooked dog food for your dog, which recipe is based on the latest in dog nutrition, but you frequently have coffee and pie for breakfast and go days without eating a proper meal with vegetables.(/nod)

You think the sound of competetetetetivenessnessness, is more satisfying than the regular way of saying it. (well it is!)

You get irritated when people come up to talk to you when you are doing something important like; staring at a wall, trying to find a space in your mind that is not overwhelmed by noise and imposing people with their desire to converse.

Never mind when people come by unannounced when you are totally getting into some research topic or painting or doing mosaics or whatever.....Hi! How nice to see you! Now go home! I'm busy!!! (Sorry!)


one of your favorite hobbies is "autie spotting". (I share this pastime with friends it's so fun!)

---another one is dog watching...not unlike bird watching...you keep track of all the breeds you have seen in real life, like: "Guess what? I saw a Keeshond today!!" (this is genetic ;) - 2 days ago when Liam and I were waiting in the Vet's office for Charlie, we spent the WHOLE time studying the large poster of 'Dog Breeds of the World' and discussing all of the different dogs we'd seen and the ones we really wanted to see..)

.if you think an old fashioned egg beater is a very cool toy. (it is TOTALLY a very cool toy. I have 2... an extra just in case one breaks, I've never beaten an egg with either one of them)

if you are a 43 year old woman and you just can't make hair-spray work for you. (well i'm 'only' 41...)

if you think cataclysm is a really great word. Catamaran, catatonic, catalyst, Catalan, catalogue, catastrophe all great words, and they start with CAT, which is neat, too. Patagonia is a neat word, too. And sassafras. (don't forget "catch phrase' I wonder what that means exactly? does it have the same root as catalogue? how do you catch a phrase exactly and what is a frasier? is it at all like a brasier? and how on earth is it different than a brassier? and what stupid idiot invented those things anyway, I notice he didn't invent an ballsier! But, ballsier would just lend size to testicles it wouldn't actually restrain them ....)

if you talk back to the people on the TV and radio and call them idiots or say sarcastic things to commercials. (one of the many reasons why I should never watch TV especially in the company of people that are not familiar with my little 'quirks'.)

you knew years ahead of time that you weren't going to the senior prom.

...by the time the prom came, they couldn't have paid you a million dollars to go to the prom. (Ok just LAST week at a family discussion, my sister says to her husband "Courtney never had teenage bad skin like you at all, she always had clear skin as a teenage" and my Dad pipes in "But she never had to worry about going to things like the Junior and Senior Prom either" I am NOT kidding this was last week! - and no I did not read this list until tonight!)

if you thought when you were 8 years old that you had no chance at being Miss America because you had so many scars on your knees and legs. (I'm thinking this is a girl thing...) (Haha I am one walking scar, I thought the last dermatologist was going to have a conniption fit about the state of my skin)

.if you have ever looked at your feet and thought that they looked like they were about 25 feet away from your head. (sometimes they are just closer than others.....)

So those were some of my favorites. Here are some other cool articles (Especially if you happen to be an Aspie :)

How to Live With Asperger's Syndrome and Develop Social Skills


How to Avoid Common Hygiene Mistakes

And my Favorite Asperger's: My life as an Earthbound alien

The picture is from this very sweet site Teaching Jeremiah, A Journey into the Mind of an Asperger's Child

How to Relate to Someone who Has Asperger's Syndrome

from wikiHow - The How to Manual That You Can Edit

You might know someone with Asperger's syndrome, and you might not even know that they have it. This should help you relate to them, and show you some ways to get them to leave their shell and interact.

Steps

1. Read articles and books about Asperger's Syndrome, preferably those written by people with the condition.
   
2. Find someone who displays characteristics of Asperger's. You can't exactly do any of the other steps if you don't.
   
3. Approach them slowly, and casually. If you see them in one spot every day, say around noon, start bringing your lunch to that spot, and sit next to them. Don't talk to them the first time, let them get used to your presence first.
   
4. Start a small conversation. People with Asperger's are not very good at conversations, so you will probably need to lead them. You know, start by introducing yourself, and asking their name, then ask them about themselves. For now you just want to get them talking, what about isn't really important yet.
   
5. Try to find some common ground, some activity that both of you enjoy. Agree to get together some time and do it. Show up for the get-together on time.
   
6. Lay your emotions bare to them. Tell them how you feel, even when you think it's patently obvious, and ask them to do the same. They'll love you for it.
   
7. If they are acting strangely, tell them (if it dangers them or others). It's important to let them know. Don't say it meanly either, just say: "Most people don't do that"; or, "That's usually considered inappropriate"; or just "Please don't do that". If it's no harm to anyone, then leave them alone. It could be a comfort to them.
   
8. Introduce them to your other friends, and try to keep everyone getting along. They may act differently in the presence of your friends, or their friends. They may simply not get along. Don't try to force them to get along with your friends... They will probably be most outgoing when encountered one on one.
   

Tips

• Never lie to someone with Asperger's. People with Asperger's, especially those that have been bullied as children, often have trust issues and even if they only catch you lying once, may never trust you again.
  
• People with Asperger's tend to be considered "smart". It might be a good idea to ask them to help you with your homework in exchange for your helping them meet people. This will allow you two to relate more.
  
• Don't coddle them, but try to protect them from bullies and authority figures, at least a little.
  
• They will probably seem distant most of the time. If that (or something else) hurts your feelings, explain as well as you can what hurt your feelings and why, and work out an agreement that both of you can live with.
  
• They may be a bit obsessive. Try to put up with it. Rearranging stuff in their houses/room is generally a bad idea.
  
• Oftentimes they will make no motions to keep the relationship (be it friendship, or something more) going. They won't call, and you might not see them for days anywhere but where you are used to seeing them. That doesn't mean they don't care. Try to encourage them to take some of the initiative, and call them often, if you can.
  
• If you are in love with them, and you have confirmed that the same is true in reverse. (This is very hard; the best way is just to ask... And be prepared for a misleading response. For example, when they say "Yeah I love you", they might mean like a brother or sister, and not love love. Or they might say "No, I don't", which could mean that they don't family love you, but may friendly love you, or romantically love you, or at least lust after you, and don't think lust really counts. They will probably also be shy). Anyway, if you are in love with them, and have confirmed that they are also in love with you, then you should be very, very, careful. Get to know all their habits, decide if you can live with them, but be prepared for them to completely change after the revelation. (Nervousness, different habits, etc.) If they trust you, you can probably get them to change back to their old lovable selves, but that can be hard. Also be careful. People with AS can burn you, even if they don't intend to. They don't show their feelings well, and you might not understand as well as you thought you did.
  
• Never talk down to someone with Asperger's Syndrome, or talk to them like you would to a child. It is annoying and insulting to the person with AS.
  

Warnings

• Do not encourage someone with Asperger's to behave in an inappropriate manner. Doing so will likely cause them to behave in the inappropriate manner more often. Pretty soon they're doing it all the time. This is a bad thing.
  
• Subtle hints don't work, if you want to communicate then simply say it.
  
• People with Asperger's are very gentle people. But when they get noticeably angry they usually mean it.
  
• Many people with Aspergers are very nice people. However, they're only human. Like with any other human being, your personalities may 'clash'.
  

Related wikiHows

• How to Live with Asperger's Syndrome
  

Sources and Citations

• Wikipedia on Asperger Syndrome
  

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Love Me Ded - Ludo

{The video is not great but the song and lyrics crack me up}

Love Me Dead
By Ludo

Love me cancerously
Like a salt-sore soaked in the sea.
'High-maintenance' means
You're a gluttonous queen
Narcissistic and mean.
Kill me romantically
Fill my soul with vomit
Then ask me for a piece of gum.
Bitter and dumb
You're my sugarplum.
You're awful, I love you!

CHORUS
She moves through moonbeams slowly
She knows just how to hold me
And when her edges soften
Her body is my coffin
I know she drains me slowly
She wears me down to bones in bed

Must be the sign on my head
That says, oh...
Love me dead! Love me dead!

You're a faith-healer on T.V.
You're an office park without any trees
Corporate and cold
Gushing for gold
Leave me alone.
You suck so passionately
You're a parasitic, psycho, filthy creature
finger-bangin' my heart
You call me up drunk
Does the fun ever start?
You're hideous and sexy!

REPEAT CHORUS

Must be the sign on my head
That says, oh...
Love me dead! Love me dead!

SOLO

Love me cancerously
Rut-dah-dah-dah-dah-daaaah
How's your new boy?
Does he know about me?
You've got the mark of the beast.
You're born of a jackal! You're beautiful!

REPEAT CHORUS

Wha' 'bout that sign on my head
That says, oh...
Love me dead!

I stumbled upon this one....

You took the 43 Things Personality Quiz and found out you are a
Creative Spiritual Reinventer
0.30% of the 94244 people who have taken this quiz are like you.

I took the 43 Things Personality Quiz and found out I'm a

Creative Spiritual Reinventer

You Are an Ectomorph

You are thin and lean. You don't put on weight easily. Ectomorphs are known for being private, introverted, and brilliant. It's likely that you are introspective, philosophical, and even artistic. Other people tend to make you a bit tense, but being alone is both inspiring and comforting.

What's Your True Body Type?

Your Height Says You're Introspective

You are a very vulnerable and spiritual person. Your emotions run deep. You have a philosophical and poetic soul. You think things through and are a bit of a skeptic. You tend to be very opinionated. You are a perfectionist with high standards. You prefer to work alone. You work hard, and you don't like interruptions. You are about as tall as the average Japanese woman.

What Does Your Height Say About You?

Your Feet Say You're Slightly Stubborn

You are pretty average in your expressiveness. You can express yourself well, but you don't always want to. You are a somewhat passionate person. A few things get you very fired up, but you're usually pretty laid back. You are not a very assertive person. If something doesn't come easily to you, it's not worth having. You don't fall in love easily. It's hard for you to connect to people, and you don't have many attachments. You are not afraid of anything. You are brave and courageous, even when most people would be terrified. You are intellectual and philosophical. You are more concerned with thoughts than action. You are a fairly hard worker, but you are also a little spoiled. You like indulge yourself every now and then. You are not easily influenced by other people. You hold your ground and are true to your beliefs.

What Do Your Feet Say About You?

Your Inner Blood Type is AB!

Your personality is hard to define - you're very unconventional. And even if your personality could be defined, it would be completely different next week! Outgoing and shy, sensitive and thoughtless, you tend to have a very split personality. This makes you unpredictable. You can be a total angel - and a total devil. You are most compatible with: everyone! Famous Type AB's: Jackie Chan and Marilyn Monroe

What's Your Inner Blood Type?

The Vatican has brought up to date the traditional seven deadly sins by adding seven modern mortal sins

ORIGINAL DEADLY SINS
Pride
Envy
Gluttony
Lust
Anger
Greed
Sloth
MODERN EVILS
Environmental pollution
Genetic manipulation
Accumulating excessive wealth
Inflicting poverty
Drug trafficking and consumption
Morally debatable experiments
Violation of fundamental rights of human nature

The Vatican has brought up to date the traditional seven deadly sins by adding seven modern mortal sins it claims are becoming prevalent in what it calls an era of "unstoppable globalisation".
Those newly risking eternal punishment include drug pushers, the obscenely wealthy, and scientists who manipulate human genes. So "thou shalt not carry out morally dubious scientific experiments" or "thou shalt not pollute the earth" might one day be added to the Ten Commandments.

The Catechism of the Catholic Church states that "immediately after death the souls of those who die in a state of mortal sin descend into Hell".
The new mortal sins were listed by Archbishop Gianfranco Girotti at the end of a week-long training seminar in Rome for priests, aimed at encouraging a revival of the practice of confession - or the Sacrament of Penance in Church jargon.
According to a survey carried out here 10 years ago by the Catholic University, 60% of Italians have stopped going to confession altogether. The situation has certainly not improved during the past decade.

Catholics are supposed to confess their sins to a priest at least once a year. The priest absolves them in God's name.
Talking to course members at the end of the seminar organised by the Apostolic Penitentiary, the Vatican department in charge of fixing the punishments and indulgences handed down to sinners, Pope Benedict added his own personal voice of disquiet.

"We are losing the notion of sin," he said. "If people do not confess regularly, they risk slowing their spiritual rhythm," he added. The Pope confesses his sins regularly once a week.
Greatest sins of our times
In an interview with the Vatican newspaper L'Osservatore Romano, Archbishop Girotti said he thought the most dangerous areas for committing new types of sins lay in the fields of bio-ethics and ecology.
He also named abortion and pedophilia as two of the greatest sins of our times. The archbishop brushed off cases of sexual violence against minors committed by priests as "exaggerations by the mass media aimed at discrediting the Church".

Last Updated: Monday, 10 March 2008, 16:06 GMT
By David Willey
BBC News, Rome

(The seven new sins aren't quite as "catchy" as the seven old ones. It's a lot harder to say 'Genetic manipulation' than to say 'Pride'.)

Hypatia of Alexandria

Hypatia of Alexandria

about 370 - 415

Hypatia was the first woman to make a substantial contribution to the development of mathematics. She was killed by a fanatical Christian sect.

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Trust Your Instincts: Some Lucky Guesses Tap Into Subconscious Memories

New research shows that even random guesses can sometimes be educated. Published in the latest Nature Neuroscience, a study by neuroscientists Ken Paller and Joel Voss has shown that choices we think of as instinctive may in fact be based on memories that can’t be consciously accessed [Telegraph].

Participants were given a special recognition test in which their memories of kaleidoscopic images were evaluated for accuracy. The subjects were distracted while viewing half of the images and paid full attention to the other half. When they were asked whether they’d seen particular images before, they were also asked if they consciously knew the correct answer or were taking a wild guess.

The researchers came up with interesting results: Regardless of attentiveness during the image studying process, participants were significantly more accurate with their guesses than with their confident answers [Ars Technica]. Guesses by distracted participants, however, were more accurate than by those who were not distracted, which suggests that the brain was storing information even more efficiently when the test subjects weren’t paying as much attention. Voss and Paller believe that this indicates that correct guesses resulted from implicit memory and are unrelated to explicit memory [Ars Technica]. Implicit memory is how you know your route to work in the morning, while explicit memory is what you draw on when someone asks you to remember the first time you rode a bike.

Says Paller: “Our research showed that even when people weren’t paying as much attention, their visual system was storing information quite well. We may actually know more than we think we know in everyday situations, too. Unconscious memory may come into play, for example, in recognising the face of a perpetrator of a crime or the correct answer on a test” [Telegraph]. So there might not be that much luck involved in a lucky guess.

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February 9th, 2009 Tags: decisions, memory
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One Response to “Trust Your Instincts: Some Lucky Guesses Tap Into Subconscious Memories”

1. Danorock Says:
February 11th, 2009 at 3:24 pm

I’m a teacher, and I am horrified by the implication that my students would retain information better if they paid LESS attention! Add to that the concept that my attempts to make them more metacognitive might actually be hurting their recall, and I’m about to leave the profession!

Feb. 15, 2003, Iraq War protest in Rome the largest antiwar rally in history

When it comes to protests, the book of Guinness World Records currently lists the Feb. 15, 2003, Iraq War protest in Rome as the largest antiwar rally in history. The event drew an estimated crowd of 3 million. On that same day, protesters gathered in nearly 600 cities in a coordinated global effort to express moral outrage against the U.S. invasion of Iraq. This included a reported 1.3 million protesters in Barcelona, Spain, and between 750,000 and 2 million protesters in London [sources: Guinness Book of World Records, BBC]. All told, between 6 and 10 million people participated in the global protest [source: BBC].

14 of the 75 richest people in all of history were Americans

A list (compiled by Forbes magazine) of the 75 richest people in all of history, going back to Crassus (No. 8) and Pharaoh Amenophis III (No. 12), shows that an astonishing 14 of them (including John D. Rockefeller and Andrew Carnegie, Nos. 1 and 2) were Americans, born mostly of humble origins between 1831 and 1840. That made them just the right age to take advantage of the tremendous creation of wealth in the years following the Civil War.

The example of those men, and those decades, has colored American attitudes toward wealth ever since. It persists today, according to Page and Jacobs, who found that "large majorities of Democrats and low-income Americans agree with Republicans and more affluent people that it is still possible to start out poor, work hard, and become rich."

Dubya, Drawn and Quartered

Will anyone miss George W. Bush when he finally leaves Washington this month? Well, Vanity Fair’s illustrators might feel a wistful twinge, as his failings and follies inspired some of their best work. This farewell slide show features our favorite depictions of the soon-to-be-former president.
WEB EXCLUSIVE January 9, 2009

A few of my favorite images from the slideshow

SPIN's Abigail Everdell catches a VIP bus from Manhattan to rural Pennsylvania to write about the band's exclusive first gig.

It Happened Last Night
AC/DC Are Back! Live Concert Review
SPIN's Abigail Everdell catches a VIP bus from Manhattan to rural Pennsylvania to write about the band's exclusive first gig.
By Abigail Everdell 10.27.08 3:28 PM

In my confirmation email from the record label representative, I was told that travel from Manhattan to Wilkes-Barre, PA, ("Wilkes-Berry?" "Wilkes-Bar?" Actually, it's "Wilkes-Bear-Uh") and back for an exclusive AC/DC performance Sunday night would be by VIP Bus. For those of you who don't know what a "VIP Bus" is, predictably, it's a bus that looks like a limo from the inside. Meaning wavy-edged mirror ceiling with colorful lights, comfy leather bench seats, and lots of places to stash drinks.

It also means pizza, chips, pretzels, assorted candies, ice buckets full of water, soda and beer, AC/DC's live DVD No Bull, and later This is Spinal Tap, playing on two screens, and a bus driver who keeps making jokes about how fucked up you all are getting and tells you, with a nudge and wink, that you can go ahead and light up a smoke if it's ok with the other passengers.

It was this bus and some 30 others that Sony arranged to transport fans and industry folk to the Wachovia Arena to see AC/DC's final dress rehearsal for the "Black Ice" World Tour, their first outing in eight years which begins tonight. Promotional tickets amounting to a little over half-capacity of the 6,000-seat arena were distributed, and contest winners who couldn't make their own way to Pennsylvania gathered in New York and loaded onto buses. Other fans tried their own luck -- like the three zealous Italians who traveled across the world and New England with no guarantee of entry, counting on the benevolence of the organizers (they got in).

We arrived early and decided to tailgate. By the time my buddy and I made it into the arena, AC/DC were 15 minutes from their scheduled 8 P.M. opening. We maneuvered through mobs of sweatshirt-clad adult fans and slowly wandering, barely-organized packs of children to our stage-left seats. Gazing over some 3,000 milling bodies, only one fellow stuck out -- in an orange and yellow day-glo, leopard-print jacket and foot-long black Mohawk. He basked in the attention of pointers and picture-taking Joes like a mini-celebrity.

By the time the lights on the long stage lit up, the crowd was on its third wave of cheering. The pitch turned frenzied when a screen dropped and a sex-and-devils-themed animation began, in which an AC/DC train is hijacked by a pair of barely-clothed babes, who seemed to have gained entry onto the coach by -- ahem -- feminine wiles. The audience maintained its roar until the closing fireworks and flash bombs revealed a giant train above the stage and the five members of the band appeared, looking reliably familiar in black sleeveless shirts.

Compared with No Bull, which was filmed in 1996 in Spain, greyer hair and slightly reduced agility are the only significant changes to AC/DC's performance. Brian Johnson still sports impossibly tight pants and forces his vocals through a Ninja Turtle-like open-cheeked grimace. Malcolm Young and Cliff Williams still flank the drum set unobtrusively unless called upon to trudge forward and contribute backing vocals. And Angus Young still rules the stage like it was built for his pale knees alone (and it was). Of the set's dozen-plus numbers, only two were new -- "Black Ice," and "Rock and Roll Train" -- and, as everyone in the audience seemed to have made it to Wal-Mart, the bellowing sing-along made Black Ice tracks almost indistinguishable from older hits.

The emphasis on chicks and explosions remains, as fireballs spit from the locomotive's wheels during the shouted letters of "TNT," and "Whole Lotta Rosie" featured its subject's lingerie-clad, dirty-kneed likeness expanding in a matter of seconds to straddle the train with leg-shaking delight. Reveling in old favorites, the band performed practiced renditions of "Back in Black," "Dirty Deeds Done Dirt Cheap," "Hells Bells," and "You Shook Me All Night Long," to the constant, screaming thrill of the audience.

Angus Young closed "Let There Be Rock" by pinballing shirtless around the stage and doing a Homer dance on circular hydraulic platform, 15-feet above the crowd. And, for the final song of their two-song encore, "For Those About to Rock," six cannons shot off smoky booms that echoed through the arena with the sonic power of an air show. Though only lasting about 70 minutes, the performance contained everything one could expect from AC/DC. That is, the archetypically familiar and the brightly spectacular.

On the drive back to Manhattan, more pizza was chowed, more candies unwrapped, and a screening of Office Space received wearied chorals of, "And I told them, I told them that if they move my desk one more time…" and "Yeahhh, I'm gonna need you to come in on Saturday." I missed most of this, as I was curled into an uncomfortable corner, trying to sleep off the buzz caused by a giant, pineapple-shaped bank of hanging speakers blasting the heaviest rock'n'roll into my unplugged ears.

Concert Review: Times may change, but AC/DC is eternal

Concert Review: Times may change, but AC/DC is eternal
Commercial Appeal Memphis Online

By Bob Mehr (Contact), Memphis Commercial Appeal
Saturday, January 31, 2009

In a year where "change" has been a buzzword and cultural theme, AC/DC remain impervious.

On Friday, during a sold-out show at the FedExForum in support of their latest album Black Ice, the band happily proved that the more things change, the more they stay the same.

Offstage, AC/DC is comprised of four rather ruddy looking Australians and Englishmen well into middle age. Onstage, however, they transform themselves, into a gang of naughty schoolboys, using a tried and true selection of songs made up of razorwire guitar riffs, simple pounding rhythms and lots of suggestive lyrics about bad girls and dirty deeds.

The band's Memphis concert stayed faithful to that formula. The extravaganza opened with big screens playing a bawdy cartoon, portraying guitarist Angus Young as a randy railroad conductor driving an out-of-control engine. The animation became reality as the group, accompanied by a giant fire shooting locomotive, hit the stage to the strains of "Rock N' Roll Train."

Though Young -- dressed in his usual schoolboy uniform -- was the undeniable focal point of the show, singer Brian Johnson proved himself the most likeable frontman in rock, constantly pumping up the crowd and the band, and generally acting like everyone' most enthusiastic drinking buddy.

Meanwhile, the rest of the band -- rhythm guitarist Malcolm Young, bassist Cliff Williams and drummer Phil Rudd -- stayed largely in the background, providing the sonic foundation.

From the get-go the audience was on its feet, where it remained -- AC/DC concerts do not have any ballads, slow numbers or breathers -- as the band mixed in the occasional new track ("Black Ice"; "War Machine") with a steady diet of favorites ("Back in Black"; "You Shook Me All Night Long").

As always, the show was highlighted by a number of familiar set pieces: Angus' striptease routine during "The Jack"; Johnson swinging from a bell rope for "Hell's Bells." Elsewhere, “Whole Lotta Rosie” — the band’s ode to a well-proportioned stripper — was accompanied by the inflation of a 90-foot foot blow-up doll bouncing and shaking to the beat.

What AC/DC lacks in innovation, they make up for in enthusiasm, as the band delivered the "oi, oi, oi" chants of "TNT" as if it were the first time they were playing the song, rather than the millionth.

After a rousing encore of "Highway to Hell", a phalanx of cannons emerged on stage, for the night-capping rendition of "For Those About to Rock (We Salute You)." One booming explosion after another could be heard all down along Beale, as the deliriously happy throngs emptied onto downtown’s streets.

Change, as the saying goes, may be good. But on this night, the same old AC/DC was even better.

-- Bob Mehr: 529-2517

Photos:
Nikki Boertman/The Commercial Appeal

(no sale) Fri, 30 Jan 2009 (nbACDC1) Photo by Nikki Boertman. Brian Johnson and Angus Young (on guitar) of AC\DC perform to a sold-out crowd at the FedExForum Friday evening January 30, 2009. The Aussie legends are on a world tour in support of their new album, Black Ice.

Nikki Boertman/The Commercial Appeal

(no sale) Fri, 30 Jan 2009 (nbACDC2) Photo by Nikki Boertman. Brian Johnson of AC\DC performs to a sold-out crowd at the FedExForum Friday evening January 30, 2009.

AC/DC in Memphis

AC/DC Concert Blasts FedExForum
January 30,
I know quite a few people who feel the cannons fired during "For Those About to Rock (We Salute You)" -- the number that usually closes an AC/DC show -- is hokey, but I happen to think it's one of the iconic images in rock-and-roll theater.
And judging from the cheers, shouts, and wild applause from the sold-out crowd that stayed on their feet during the Australian group's entire show at FedExForum Friday night, I guess I'm not alone.

It was a helluva concert, one that left me with my ears ringing from the sounds cranked out of a row of 10 Marshall stacks, my brain numbed by truly stunning visual effects, and my hands sore from clapping.

The show opened with a tremendous stunt -- a larger than life-size locomotive, belching flames and steam, slid out from behind a curtain to complement the opening number, "Rock and Roll Train." Add to that a four-story doll that inflated (and even tapped her foot to the beat) during "A Whole Lotta Rosie," the huge "Hell's Bell" that dropped from the rafters to kick off the classic song of that name, great videos (including a B-24 dropping guitars and babes from its bomb-bay doors) projected on a pair of giant screens behind the band, and then the row of six massive cannons that boom, boom, and BOOM during the band's closing number, and you have a truly classic AC/DC concert.

The almost two-hour performance featured non-stop hits -- "T.N.T.," "You Shook Me All Night Long," "Back in Black," among others -- from the group that's now been touring for almost four decades, with three songs from their new album, Black Ice, thrown in just to show the band hasn't lost its touch.

Singer Brian Johnson's screeching vocals were actually in good form, and lead guitarist Angus Young -- still wearing that schoolboy outfit at age 55 -- seemed as nimble fingered as he was 20 years ago. His blistering 10-minute solo on his Gibson SG during "Let There Be Rock" not only brought almost constant applause, but a rather surreal scene, when hundreds of concert-goers suddenly whipped out their camera phones to capture him playing on an elevated platform that rose from the middle of the arena.

Johnson told the crowd, "This is for you, Memphis," when the band cranked out "Dirty Deeds (Done Dirt Cheap)," but he really had the audience in his pocket the whole evening. Diehard fans of AC/DC surely left satisfied, and anyone not familiar with the band or their music probably left impressed. After more than 30 years, these guys can still rock with the best of them, cannons and all.

-- Michael Finger Memphis Flyer Online

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